If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn’t sit for a month.
If I had a penny for all the times I wanted to kick someone else when it was actually my fault I’d be a very wealthy man.
It is so easy to look for blame in others. Few people like to admit they have flaws and faults that could be getting in the way. However, knowing I am my own biggest problem is also liberating. If I’m the problem, I don’t have to ask anyone for permission to fix things.